Okay, let’s get straight to the point: Can you access someone else’s soul blueprint, and if so, should you? Spoiler alert: it’s not always a simple yes or no. There are some spiritual guidelines to keep in mind, but luckily, I’ve got the answers right here to help you navigate this with love, respect, and of course, the right intentions.

In short: you don’t need permission from family members and you don’t need to share this information with them if you know they are not open to this. It is enough if it is helping you grow and connect on a deeper level, to evolve towards more understanding and forgiveness. If that is your intention, that is enough. They don’t need to know.

Rule of Thumb: Who’s in your inner circle?

The general rule of thumb is this: you can read the soul blueprint or energy of someone who is part of your inner circle – someone who has or has had a direct influence on your life. If this person has impacted your journey in a meaningful way, you have some level of permission to explore their energy, but – and this is a big “but” – it’s all about your intention.

What about family members?

When it comes to family (close or distant), the same rule applies. If they’ve had an impact on your life, and you’re seeking clarity to heal, grow, or forgive, reading their blueprint can be transformative. You might be trying to understand a family dynamic that’s been passed down through generations, or maybe you’re trying to make peace with someone who’s no longer in your life.

Even if the family member has passed away. Because whether they’re still in this realm or have transitioned to the next, their energy and soul history can still offer you valuable insights. Sometimes, accessing the blueprint of someone who has passed can bring profound peace and help you let go of any lingering grief or emotional baggage. It’s like getting the missing pieces of the puzzle that help everything finally make sense.

The Three-Month Rule for Children

Let’s talk about children – your own little souls-in-training. Of course you can read the blueprints of your children, but there’s a slight exception for infants under three months old. Here’s why: up until around the three-month mark, babies are still adjusting to life on Earth. Their souls are popping in and out of their bodies, getting the hang of this whole “being human” thing. Think of it like they’re not quite fully downloaded yet.

After that three-month mark, their soul becomes more stable in their body, and it’s totally fine to access their blueprint if your intentions are loving and aligned. This can be incredibly helpful in understanding your child on a deeper level, especially if they’ve come into this life with specific challenges or soul contracts.

If someone wants to snoop for the sake of snooping, that’s not the vibe we’re going for.

Digging around in someone’s Akashic Records or energy purely out of curiosity? Nope. The Universe tends to shut those doors pretty quickly because the energy behind that intention isn’t aligned with respect or growth.

But let’s say your intention is to heal, evolve or understand that person from a more loving perspective—that’s a whole different story.

Maybe you want to bring more peace into a relationship, or perhaps you’re trying to release old wounds and forgive. In those cases, accessing someone’s blueprint can be incredibly powerful and even encouraged. This goes for your relationships with exes, spouses, close family, or even distant family members who have played a major role in your life.

So what about exes or spouses?

Yes, you can access their blueprint if they’re part of your life’s big-picture lessons (and let’s be real, exes often are). However, once again, your intention is key. If you’re digging around to get some cosmic dirt on them, that’s not the way. But if you’re trying heal old wounds and long to see someone from their soul’s perspective so you can come back to love and move forward? Absolutely. Go for it.

The same goes for spouses or current partners. Relationships are one of our greatest mirrors, reflecting back to us where we need to grow. Accessing their soul blueprint can help you deepen your connection and move toward greater understanding and love—if that’s your intention.

The bottom line: It’s all about intention.

At the end of the day, the golden rule is this: intention matters. If you’re accessing someone’s blueprint to grow, heal, or bring more love into your relationship with them (whether they’re alive, passed on, or someone you once knew), you’re on the right track. The Universe is all about that kind of energy. But if you’re just trying to satisfy your curiosity or poke around without a higher purpose, the Records probably won’t open up for you—and honestly, that’s for the best.

So, the next time you’re wondering if you can dive into someone else’s soul blueprint, use your discernment and ask yourself:

Is my intention rooted in love, growth and healing?

When in doubt, maybe hold it of for a while and ask yourself again in a week or month.
If the answer is clear yes from your heart, the Records will welcome you with open arms and a whole lot of soul wisdom. ✨